T-Bird Anni Rides Again

November 3, 2009

odds and sods

Filed under: Life

a nasty case of inertia has gripped the household recently resulting in no "reward chart" nonsense, and not a lot else either.  There has been….

the pop up tent in my bedroom (too cold outside!) in which we did fabric crafts.

facebook, yes, I know, just don’t go there…. but I do think there may be some educational value in all those darned games…. and it means she has unlimited oportunities to ply Uno (which I really don’t get so thus refuse to buy for her as then I’d have to play it with her…. mean?  Me?  you bet)… and she’s getting all sorts of things out of the various "ville" games, the planning and stratagies she’s developing is pretty impressive (although I do have to apologise to Jo for her stealing all your crops on the island thingie!)

brief flickers of interest in various Brownie badges, resulting in me spending hours finding stuff that really should not be that hard to find, and wittering about how useless the links on the Brownie badge website are.

and, erm, not a lot else really.

October 29, 2009

alternate uses for trampolines

Filed under: Life, Learning stuff

Whilst looking for the cover things for the trampoline springs, we notices taht some places sell tents that are designed to go on them but for lots, and lots of money obviously!  But then, we have a pop up tent which is a perfect size…. so we have popped that up and had SonLight in the bouncy tent for the last 2 days!  Funny how she will listen to hours of stuff if she can fidgit and wiggle but can’t listen to 2 minutes if she is sat "normally".  Just another reason why home ed works :-D

Other good things in the past few days include being told by my boss that I’m "too good" and thus am getting a pay rise, no idea how much but every little helps and actually, being told I’m good is worth quite a bit to a daft sod like me! In a similar vein, I’ve been nominated for an award with the Red Cross, which I won’t be there to collect at the annual mutual back slapping event as I’ll be at the Christmas NicCamp (phew, being told I’m good is nice, having to stand up in front of lots of people is embarrassing…) And we have traced why our bank account was £700 worse off that it should have been - that would be Duke forgetting to put in time sheets for his casual work for the last 4 months then :roll:   So we are going to be in a much better position come pay day and may even be able to afford Christmas after all :-D

October 26, 2009

The Scream (photo to follow)

Filed under: Life

We did "halloween crafts" at Nelly’s house today and I took a suggestion from this site to do "skulls" which both me and Aprilia had a go at and Nelly and Bart did their own take on.  Then, Aprilia being just that little bit on the perfectionist side, she decided that her skull wasn’t good enough so went a bit mad and chalked the whole thing over creating something very like the face in The Scream.  This prompted discussion about the original work so I had to google it when we got home and printed her a copy of it and then Enchanted Learning (gotta love that site) have a colour it in yourself version so I printed her that off as well.  She was much impressed.

As to the proposed awards system, she’s much impressed with that too.  She has decided on stickers rather than tokens and wants to negociate what she gets for a certain number of stickers over a set time period.  So that’s what we will do for now.  We are still doing different colours for different topics though and she accepts that she does have to have variety and was remarkably excited to find art and music on the list!  So, it’s now down to me isn’t it to facilitate…..

Step one of facilitation was removing the ****** jigsaw of the kitchen table.  Who the **** gives an 8 year old a 1000 piece jigsaw of the livery companies of London?????  but anyway, we finished it (apart from the 3 lost bits) took photos for posterity and shoved it back in it’s box.  So now the table is clear for crafting/art etc adn I can fold it away to get to the sewing machine.  this gives her lots of options.

October 25, 2009

boing!

Filed under: Life

Having been unable to put up the trampoline yesterday (rain stopped play) I was dead set on doing it today… and I did!  Actually it was pretty easy once you got the knack of doing the springs (although I will point out that, being second hand, the springs may well not have been as, well, springy!)  It ddin’t come with the cover bit for the springs but I found somewhere selling them fairly cheaply and ordered a few new springs at the same time (there are 2 that are overstretched and I assume that more will give up at some point so it seemed sensible to get some on stock)  In the mean time she is on strict orders to bounce carefully….  I think she bounced for the entire afternoon :lol:

I’m giving serious consideration at the moment to some sort of token system to make sure stuff gets done.  I’m working on probably using tiddly winks or similar so there are different colours for different tasks then I can say that she can have her PC/watch TV once she has done so many things, including 2 or 3 different colours.  I’m not autonomous so I have no qualms from that POV but I am a bit sad that I have had to resort to her "earning" these sorts of things but really, she could quite happily watch endless trash (I mean, she will watch Cebeebies for goodness sake!) and play endless trashy games (am seriously considering a very draconian Net Nanny!!!) and really, I think she needs to learn that good stuff doesn’t come "free".  I don’t want a lot - the ability to walk across her bedroom without protective footwear would be nice, half an hour or so of "normals" three or four times a week would be as much as I’d expect, a bit of crafting or artwork a couple of times, a bit of music once a week, something physical most days and a voluntarily consumed piece of fruit most days…..  If it works I may instigate it for Duke too…… actually, it does look a lot when I list it but really, you know, she does have all day every day!!!!

October 22, 2009

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October 21, 2009

Aspartame as an educational tool?

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Okay, if you know Aprilia, you know NOT to feed her anything with artificial sweeteners in.  Well, I mean, you can, but you are looking after her for the next 24 hours whilst she bounces off the ceiling emoticon  Yesterday I slipped up emoticon she had lemonade whilst we were out with mum and dad and at 9pm she was Wide Awake and wanting Attention.  So she got it!  She got attention whilst she was doing her maths puzzle book, her English puzzle book, her NVR book, her reading book…. yeh, she got lots of attention!

She’s had a hair cut too (not as a direct result of the aspartame!) and I have to say, she looks several years younger with a cutsy little bob than she did with long flowing locks!  

October 18, 2009

Chrochet and Christening

Filed under: Life

It seeped into my conciousness rather too late that this lunchtime we were at a christening and that a gift would probably be required!  So, with no time or inspiration for bought gifts, it was random delving into the yarn stash time!  I came out with a lovely powder blue and a cream and then did a second random delve, this time into the pattern stash.  The results are on Duke’s camera :roll: so you will have to settle for vague descriptions!  I made a blue and cream striped jacket from this pattern (but without buttons - didn’t have any, so I went for ties instead!)  I had a couple of false starts with this one but once I actually read the pattern properly it went okay!  Mind you, I did deviate a little in as much as I like less baggy sleeves so fiddled round a bit with only working 3 sides of teh hexagon for a couple of rows to allow for enough depth and width without adding huge amounts of bagginess to the sleeves.  It worked up really fast.  Then, because I still had yarn left I did a "body warmer" that crosses over at the front.  It was sleeveless because there wasn’t enough yarn for sleeves…..

So, then I had a clear concience to go and coo over young Oliver who was remarkably well behaved for a small boy in a dress :lol:  

And in an atempt to get used to this idea of planning a whole year in advance….. this week our targets are…..

a bit of maths, English and reasoning. 
A lot of stories. 
A serious attempt at finding the floor in her bedroom. 
Some cooking. 
Some swimming

October 16, 2009

Dear Mr Balls

Filed under: Grrrrrr!

I have read with interest your intended plans for those of us who home educate our children.  I would like to make a few comments about those plans.

With respect to the compulsory registration of all home educators, I am sorry, but I fail to see what this would acheive.  Well, no, that’s not entirely true, I do know three things it will achieve - a huge public expense which this country can ill afford at the moment, another database to go astray and a feeling of persecution in those it applies to.  I certainly don’t see why this registration has to be done in some public building, that just seems a waste of time and yet more money in transport costs, you see, most of us are fairly internet savvy, I’m sure we could fill in the appropriate data for ourselves, much as we do for tax returns and electoral registers.

No other section of the community needs to do this.  Vegetarians don’t need to line up at a school canteen to register their children (and in theory there is a small chance that a vegetarian child may not be provided with a diet suitable to their age and activity levels), children who attend places of worship of every kind do not have to line up at a pre-selected church hall be registered (and again, in theory they may come into contact with all sorts of radical and separatist ideas there) children who do any number of potentially concerning activities don’t have to line up at the local scout hut to register just on the off chance that one of them may fall foul of disaster.  So why home educators?  Are we really such a scary bunch?

So we shall move onto the next issue.  That of providing a one year plan of our intended study.  Now, to be fair, I could, possibly, do this.  Unlike many British home educators, I am not autonomous, well, not currently, I do reserve the right to change my mind if autonomy becomes an educational method that suits my child in the future.  I could, therefore, say that over the next 12 months we will be making use of SonLight’s Core 2 with a few side trips into other great British and American literature and supplemented with a balanced array of workbooks covered literacy and numeracy.  I am not going to be any more specific than that, because my crystal ball is in for repair so I’m really not sure what else we will do.  But I reserve the right to abandon SonLight should the books not be up to their usual standard or should my daughter suddenly have a burning desire to do a multitude of lapbook or poster projects instead.  I reserve the right to take 2 years to finish Core 2, or 6 months, depending on how we go.  She will still be kept busy, she will still be learning, just perhaps not in the way I thought we may be previously.

Staying on the subject of how I chose to educate my child, but moving on to your second recomendation.  I fully accept that schools need prescriptive guidance on what to teach.  A teacher has 30 or more children in her care for the vast majority of his or her working day.  Then there is marking, and meetings, and after school activities.  These people do not have the time to find a resource that would light "little Johnny"’s fire and engage him in productive learning whilst Young Tom investigates engineering principles and Tiny Tim curls up with his favourite book.  It can’t work in a normal classroom setting and no one expects it to.  

As to sitting on consultation panels, well, I’m sorry, we  have been shown very clearly over the past year exactly how you value our opinions.  I fail to see why I should waste time I should be investing in my daughter by sitting in meetings that will do no good.

And then we reach Number Seven.  I’m not quite sure how to address this whilst remaining calm and rational.  You see, I am at a loss as to how you think that this can possibly be legal or acceptable.  If I were a criminal, you would require a judge to sign a warrant to allow officers of the law, who had already developed some sort of case against me, or at least have some justifiable suspicions, to enter my home.  I am reasonably sure that the police do not routinely inspect the homes of known miscreants just in case, let alone calling on law abiding citizens just on the off chance that they may have something they aren’t allowed.  And yet, you are going to compel me to allow a stranger into my home for no other reason than I chose to home educate my child.  Not only that, once you have gained access to my home you intend to allow a stranger to speak to my child without myself or her father present.  As far as I am aware, the only justifiable grounds for speaking to a child without the parent present is where there is clear evidence of abuse, and even then a second responsible adult needs to be there.  This is not only offensive in its insinuation that abuse is to be strongly suspected in home educated children but against the rights of the child to having a reasonable expectation of privacy within the home and to chose who they speak to.

Finally, I would like you to clarify please, what exactly you mean by "anything else which may affect their ability to provide a suitable and efficient education.."  as I am very concerned that this will be used as a "cop out clause" for insisting children are placed into schools against their wishes when the family does not fit into some kind of acceptable norm.

October 15, 2009

sensory heaven

Filed under: Life

I tend to forget that Aprilia *needs* quite a bit of sensory input to function happily but today I think I may have got it right!  she spent the vast majority of the day up to the eyeballs in paint and then, in a moment of shere devilment whilst we were painting paper balls I suggested she dispensed with the brush (which wasn’t working particularly well) and just dip them in the paint pot and smear it about…. suddenly she came alive!  Two hours later she was completely blissed out :-)

Then she sat in a warm bath and used about half a bottle of shampoo on her hair in order for there to be enough foam to squidge about round her head.  

She’s also recently been enjoying a weighted lap blanket which she puts over her legs at night and on her lap sometimes in the day.  She is asking for a full sized weighted blanket to spread the sensation further round so I need to deal with that.  Gonna take a lot of rice….. 

 She’s also sleeping in her pop up tent just now.  Bit of a nuicance really as it takes up all her floor but she likes being enclosed.

Sensory heaven indeed.

I think she is being tripped out by quite a few things at the moment and she’s needing all the sensory input she can get.  Duke being away for a week wasn’t good.  Me being on the wind up to an exam really didn’t help, and I am aware that I did not deal with that at all well and really, really need to get a grip on that before next time (which is a whole seperate post)  The whole Home Ed review thing is not worrying her for her own sake (not being autonomous it’s going to affect us less than others…. doesn’t make it any more acceptable but it shouldn’t impact us to quite such a high degree) but she is worried for her friends (how typically Aprilia!) and this is really not helping.  And, naturally, it’s at this point that I forget that what she needs or worse deny it because gloopy paint and rice/sand/mud etc are not things I want all over my house when it’s already a tip (you wouldn’t beleive that actually I get stressed by untidiness would you???)

Weird really how a child who pales and shrinks from noise stimulus in the form of noisy places can crave other sense input so much right up to not being able to sleep without her precious story CDs.

times like this make me so much more sure that home is the best place for her.  I really do not want to think how she would be if she had to deal with the stresses of school.

October 14, 2009

science links

Filed under: Learning stuff

Aprilia has asked for more practical science.  I am being sadly negligent in this area at the moment (in fact, you may ahve noticed a general air of negligence in many areas recently…..) but as I am now expecting her to do "work" for me, I need to return the favour and provide fun stuff for her.

So here are some science links I want to follow up with her, recorded here because my browser’s bookmarks are in such a state just now that I’ll never find them again if I put them in there!!!

Fizz foam and flubber - thanks Michelle for the link to this one

Steve Spangler Science - an on-line shop (take the credit card off me NOW!!) but with loads of experiments to try that you don’t need special stuff for

Planet Science - as a "newsletter" for under 11s with a simple weekly experiment and lots of bright and flashy stuff that will keep my shiny girl happy for hours!

I’m sure there must be more but really, there’s enough to keep me on my toes here for a while!

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